Wednesday, August 8, 2007

First Day of School

Well, at least it seems like the first day of school for Barbara. That was our joke as we got her ready to go to her first day of rehab this morning. She now has had the blessing of getting to ride in a van IN her wheelchair. There was a bit of trepidation on her behalf, but I'm praying all will go well.

She will be going to outpatient rehab 3 times a week for about 6 and a half weeks. A driver will pick her up and bring her back each of those days, for the afternoon. It felt like she was going to school because I had to pack her a lunch (she actually leaves late morning), and she had to pack a few things to keep her occupied during the downtime. So, it felt like she was preparing to set off for her first day in kindergarten.

Please pray that this will be an extremely successful time of rehab, and that Barbara will soon be able to walk again... on her own.

One other prayer request I'll pass along. Barbara's dad is not doing well health-wise, and she's very upset about it. He needs to know Christ as his savior as well, and I think that's a big part of Barbara's concern. He was able to come up with Barb's mom, his sister, and a cousin yesterday for a visit. I've included a few pictures of that. Please help us pray for Barb's dad... for both his physical and spiritual health.

Monday, August 6, 2007

Aug. 6

Don't know why it has been so hard to keep up with this blog these days. I suspect it has something to do with the wild unfettered clutter of business my life has become. Nevertheless, I am daily mindful of just how wonderfully blessed I am, and how fortunate I am to have my precious angel home with me for a while longer. Hopefully for many whiles longer. Which incites me to point out that it is incredible what such a horrible drama as we've lived can do for a relationship. And I am speaking of positive things here.

Our week spent at camp was just wonderful, and went far better than either one of us could have imagined. After the wedding, we had made camp a secondary goal. At the time, we only had reason to believe that might entail a visit of a day or two. It was so wonderful being their for the week. It was equally wonderful to spend time with my dad and my sister and her family. Barbara loves going to camp about as much as I do, which is a really great thing.

This past week we had my sister's 8-year old middle daughter with us. She had been wanting to spend a week doing crafts with Aunt Barbara. Then, my sister and her family joined us for church here at GFM on Sunday, and spent a good portion of the day here.

Good news came this morning... it seems that we are now on track to get Barbara started on out-patient rehab this Wednesday! Wonderful news. They will pick her up and bring her home as well, which is a big relief for me.

We're also relieved that a member of our church will be coming to look at our dead dryer to see if it is fixable. It's a pain to do laundry and have to dry it at a laundromat, hence laundry isn't getting done like it should!

Keep us in prayer that the rehab will work out well and that Medicaid will come through. Pray for me for strength and stamina to do all the jobs that I have to do. I am so pleased to have Barbara here, but it is quite a job as well.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

July 29 - Back From Beyond

This will probably be brief - we're all exhausted this evening - but I wanted to pop a quick post on here to update you. Barbara and I have been in Clay City (IN) this past week for our church conference's family camp. I've gone every year of my life, and since we've been married, Barbara has grown to love going there as well. We had a wonderful time. It was so good to see our many friends. And I could tell it was really good for them to see Barbara. Most, if not everyone, had no idea she would be there. Thanks to a last minute blessing, it worked out for us to go. God blessed us with one of His earthly assistants who gave us a great queen size bed that is perfect for Barbara's needs. I will try to give more details in the days ahead, but for now, I will leave you with a few pictures from the week. For now, I'll just say that Barbara did VERY well despite the fact that we've both come home with colds! This trip to camp was a second goal that we set after Jackie's wedding, so it was a real answer to prayer to be able to go. Here are the pics...


With our nieces... the one on the right is spending the week after camp here with us doing "crafts" with Aunt Barbara!



Barbara with friends from our pastorate at Birds, IL... The Armstrongs and McCulloughs.

Sharing a big hug with Flossie Constable.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

July 19

First let me say I would buy a Lexus. If I had the money to do so, I would buy a Lexus. Oh sure, there would be nay-sayers o'plenty that would say anything from, "Ooooo, look at Mr. Bigshot moneybags" to "Shouldn't you have given the money to the poor?" But I would negate those nattering nabobs of negativism. Here's how I sees it; shouldn't we spend our money on good quality products that will perform well longer and, when all is added/subtracted/divided and configulated, my guess is that I would spend the same money on the Lexus as I would have maintaining and buying the more affordable but less rock-solid cars. BMWs have more problems than you'd realize, Cadillacs actually have more maintenance issues than most cars, and Jaguars are poorly made cars with a high prestige label. Consumer Reports and my own prejudices aside, there is an end run point to be made here. We Christ-followers can at times be guilty of poor stewardship of our money under the guise of saving a buck or two. The old adage, "You get what you pay for," is more reliable than not. So we eschew Charmin for Angel Soft in our quest to save a dime all the while likely spending more. Should churches be built with the best materials they can afford? Certainly. That is not poor stewardship, it is wise use of money. We too often are guilty of being gullible when we should instead be a bit more world-wise. That's not the same as being worldly. I say all this from the vantage point of now having more debt than income (!!), but still wise to the fact that I haven't always given Christ my best. Having Barbara back in my life reminds me to be a better man, a better husband than before. Life only affords us so many minutes, and I want to give her a Lexus husband rather than anything lesser. And I want to be a Lexus follower of Christ rather than one that will break down before the race is done. We used to sing a hymn called, "Give of Your Best to the Master." Too bad we forgot to do that.

OK, if you made it this far, it's now time for a quick update on Barbara (the actual reason why you're visiting here today). Things have gone well for us, but we still recognize there's a steep learning curve on the road to living more efficiently with our present reality. I have managed to strain several muscles while moving Barbara, and am in the process of trying to remedy that.

Perhaps the biggest news of the day is that Barbara got her tummy tube removed today. Due to the fact that she had a more secure tube that was placed for longevity, she had to go in for an out-patient procedure. It took much longer than we'd anticipated due to the trouble they had finding a vein for an IV (6 sticks, thank-you). With the doctor's permission, they left the IV in so that she can more easily be given the calcium infusion she will receive tomorrow (also an out-patient procedure).

The Lord has answered many prayers, and has been so good to us. We continue to rejoice in the fact that there are always many more blessings than hurts.

Please pray that Barbara will heal quickly now that her final remnant from scarier days has been removed,

Pray that Medicare issues will be resolved soon,

Pray that she will continue to heal and continue to progress,

And say a little prayer for my physical and emotional well being too whilst you're at it!

We had a wonderful time at Jackie and Peter's post-wedding family/friends shower in Columbus last Saturday. Thanks for all your prayers and kind words.